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Man, oh, man, I was all set to do a fun, “Feline Friday” post where I introduce the Meowers of Death. But then I saw someone link to this article and now my blood is boiling. So gotta shift gears and get this out of my head.
Gabapentin, or ‘Johnnys,’ prescription drug being abused, report says
Whatever these people are taking, it’s not Gabapentin. I take Gabapentin for fibromyalgia. I don’t experience any kind of side effects other than joint pain decreasing to tolerable levels and my brain fog going away (both of which I had long before taking it). It’s like those were symptoms of fibromyalgia and I was prescribed to take it to RELIEVE those symptoms or something, right?
It works SO well and so under the radar that sometimes I forget to fill my prescription and think “oh it’s not doing anything, I can go without a few days.” And boy, is that a mistake. No, I do not end up having withdrawals. I end up having to wear a TENS unit all day for 2-3 days turned up to the max, carry my massager room to room in the house with me, keep a constant rotation of ibuprofin, can barely think straight, and feel like my head is full of cotton until I get back on my routine of taking it. I take the smallest dose (300mg) 3 times a day.
I think the majority of medications these days have a “may cause drowsiness” warning on them, so let’s just classify all medications as addictive and scheduled drugs. Say bye-bye to those over the counter sleep medications. You know, because they cause sedation; nevermind that is the intended use for them. Benadryl? Nope, gotta go. This one makes me feel “high” and sleepier than a lot of other things, so it’s definitely in this category. Just about any daily allergy med has to be tossed in there, along with cold medicines, and anti-nausea medications like phenergan. Melatonin will become a dirty word. Even herbal supplements won’t be safe. You’ll have to sell chamomile tea on the black market because you can’t get it anywhere else.
And those sleep medications you’re given when nothing else will work? Ambien, Belsomra, Lunestra, and so on? Well, kiss those goodbye honey, and be prepared to go on a rampage because you don’t get any sleep for a few weeks. But hey, at least they’ll have another check they can make on their “winning the drug war” chart and something else the politicians can parade out for a sound byte or favorable press release.
I guess we’ll be going back to the 1800s or end up using only castor oil and apple cider vinegar to treat every ailment. Next thing you know we’ll be back to drilling holes in the heads of people to get those evil spirits out. Better brush up on those old wives’ tales, because you’ll be lucky if you have the option of aspirin if this keeps on.
The only difference will be the click-bait painted on the side,
“You’ll be shocked at this simple cure to all ailments!”
I don’t know what the answer is. I do know it’s frustrating to struggle for 5 years with something no doctor can seem to diagnose or treat that was destroying my life…then, when a doctor finally finds something to try that gives you your life back, all of a sudden someone comes through with this kind of study to cause a panic and completely shit on your parade that finally had a few cool floats added to it.
I hate taking medication. I fought taking the stuff I have to take now for years because I didn’t want to just throw pills at the problem if there were other ways to fix it. But it reached a point that I needed to live my life or just spend the rest of it on the couch in pain. And I’m not just using medication to manage FADI. I also utilize counseling/therapy, meditation, and massage therapy to minimize the need for medications and maybe one day drop a few of them.
Now, if all this fear over Gabapentin goes the way I think it will, I will have 2 different medications I have to jump through hoops for that keep me working and being able to live a normal life every single day, NEITHER of which is an opioid.
Why should I feel like a criminal where I think I need to ration my fucking medication so I don’t raise any weird flags when I refill it, even if it is ON time and I’ve just finished my monthly (yes, monthly) doctor’s visit I have to make in order to be able to get the prescription refilled for 30 days? When I am using it at one of the lowest doses possible for it’s INTENDED purpose?
Adderall is the other medication I’m referring to here. Again, low dose, twice a day. Has been life-changing for me. But I am more nervous to tell people I am taking Adderall than I am admitting that I have 11 CATS. Why?
Because of articles like this. Because our politicians and media wants to blame a drug instead of the people who abuse it. Because this kind of attitude causes those in a society who loves to stereotype and label people based on one aspect of their lives to add another judgmental feather to their lecture hat and decide that you must be one of those addicts simply because you take a medication that “may” be or has a high risk of dependency at a certain dosage or depending on the person taking it.
Because that’s exactly what this kind of shit ends up doing. Putting an addict sign on someone who’s not a fucking addict, but the world automatically assumes is one because they take a certain kind of medication.
There is nothing wrong with having a doctor closely monitor your medications and how you are using them. There is nothing wrong with basic regulations to try to limit abuse of medications. And most importantly, I’m NOT saying there isn’t a problem with prescription drug abuse. But patting ourselves on the back by making it almost impossible for anyone to get certain medications (including the people who actually use them properly) is not going to win any drug war or solve drug addiction.
Those addicts are just going to shift to something else, and we are already seeing that happen.
An EMT’s view from the front lines of America’s heroin crisis
Seven Days of Heroin: What an epidemic looks like
‘This is unprecedented’: 174 heroin overdoses in 6 days in Cincinnati
Guess what the drug of choice is for people who can’t get their prescription
pill fix? HEROIN. Granted, it is increasingly being mixed with Fentanyl, which is an opioid, but heroin was still what got the ball rolling. So your war on opioids has cured how many addicts exactly and/or kept them from misusing drugs? I bet that number is lower than the media and politicians want us to believe.
Because addicts will get their fix wherever they can because no one is getting to the core issue: these people do drugs to feel good and to detach from reality. Life is either unbearable or too hard or whatever and they can’t handle it without a crutch to help them survive. If you take away their crutch, they are going to find another one because they can’t handle life without it. All you’ve done is just make it harder on the people who needed it in the first place.
Pretty much the American way of solving our problems these days.
Like everything else in this country, people seem to think there is an easy fix for this complex problem. You can’t force people to stop doing something just by making it illegal. It’s obvious that is not working. You have to educate doctors on trying different methods to treat patients. Require patients to try different pain management techniques before medication (that of course need to be covered by insurance). Maybe require anyone who is on a classified addictive drug long term to attend therapy in order to continue using it. Focus more on figuring out WHY these people are addicted to something and help them solve those issues instead of just trying to convince yourself that making just about every drug illegal or difficult to obtain will cure this addiction problem.
The saddest part about prescription drug addiction is that I guarantee most of the people who wind up taking them to begin with did because they didn’t have any other options and it was unmanageable on it’s own. When you have healthcare where a prescription for Vicodin is cheaper than any other type of pain management or therapy and is the only thing covered by insurance, then I wonder what most are going to end up choosing?
People make mistakes: Cam Newton’s folly & apology
I remember growing up and watching college basketball and NFL games with my parents. During those times, I always hoped to see female reporters or female coaches on TV during Monday Night Football or an NCAA tournament game. I wanted to see a woman holding her own at the tables of talking heads. Hell, I wanted to do it myself…I was all about some stats and research on basketball and football. I loved talking UK basketball with my dad (and I still do).
(Can I just say how excited I am for the upcoming college basketball season?)
In recent years, I’m thrilled to see this hope become reality (though the talking heads have gotten more annoying than interesting). Slower than it should be, granted, but I’m seeing it more and more. It’s about a person’s love of the game, not their age, gender, what have you. And reinforcing that acceptance is something a lot of young men and women need to see.
I also normally try to give people the benefit of the doubt if they don’t exhibit a pattern of asshole behavior, even when it’s something offensive to women. Some would say I’m not much of a feminist, others would say I need to step it up a notch. But for the most part, a single incident, comment, or action that is disrespectful to women isn’t offensive to me personally, but I understand that it is to others and respect that.
However, this is an exception and it really pisses me off.
Cam Newton Says It’s ‘Funny’ Hearing Female Reporter ‘Talk About Routes’
Not really because it happened to a woman and the whole closing ranks thing, but hearing that kind of dismissive comment about someone being respectful and asking a genuine question. It could have been about anyone and still be something inappropriate to say. Try it. Try putting another group in for “female” and see how it sounds:
“It’s funny hearing a gay reporter talk about routes.”
“It’s funny hearing a Hispanic reporter talk about routes.”
“It’s funny hearing a teenager reporter talk about routes.”
It’s messed up and dismissive no matter who he was talking about. And this kind of comment needs to be called out because it needs to stop happening. We need to learn how to respect each other regardless…the Golden Rule we try to stress to our children. Treat others as you would want to be treated.
It’s not going to happen overnight. It’s soul-crushing, upsetting, and discouraging to see and hear this kind of attitude in 2017. But in a society where it is easier to ignore other points of view and double down on rationalizing one’s own feelings as truth, you are not going to change a lot of minds in one moment.
Most of the time, the push for humanity to be better and do better feels like you aren’t making any progress at all.
But we have to start somewhere. Dismissing it will not help move us in the right direction. But for those crying out in anger, take a moment and think; we have to show it’s unacceptable in a constructive way instead of stooping down to that same level in retaliation. Either extreme reaction is not productive in changing hearts and minds. Neither is demanding acceptable behavior when you too have made similar mistakes in the past.
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UPDATE: He did issue what I think is a sincere apology. After seeing the video, I do think he is finally taking this seriously. And I’m thankful for that.
And you know what? People make mistakes. Try as we might, we can’t teach or learn perfection. The real teachable moment is how to learn from your mistakes and try to do better in the future. THIS is how you be a role model for people.
Should Dannon have dropped him so quickly? I’m not sure. I believe in giving people opportunities to fix their mistakes, but in this case, it may not have started hitting home that this was inappropriate if Dannon hadn’t taken that step.
People have a tendency to never forgive and judge harshly over a brief moment of stupidity. However, ignoring this is not a good reaction either. Perhaps ultimately our goal should be to use this situation to open a conversation with friends, family, and most of all, your kids about respecting others the same way they respect you. Don’t focus on the person who said it. Focus on what was said and why it was unacceptable.